What does she/he think?

Both the sex's have that question. what does the other person in the relationship think? Well news FLASH ! ! ! It happens in same sex relationships too. It dont matter if the person is hetrosexual or homosexual. The fact remains the same that in a relationship the best way to come to terms with it n not go crazy is to just let yourself be alright with everything. That doesnt mean dont care about your partner... just that if there is something on your mind then talk about it with your partner. And a word of advice for both WOMEN AND MEN......SHUT YOUR TRAPS AND JUST LISTEN. Cause more often than you would realize the only reason why the other person would talk about it is cause they feel secure with you... and also for the fact that they know that they love you and that you love em back and also the fact that they care for you and vice versa. So just remember that the next time you think about throwing a trantrum or go bitching about your boyfriends/girlfriends to your friends cause you are just doing what you dread the most.
 
                      Reason why i am posting this... Well its not to clear up any misunderstanding or anything else for that reason. I'm just saying this cause i keep getting asked this question by a lot of my female friends... Hell ive asked this question a million times......"Men! i do not get them!" this was a statement that was made recently... you have to realize that men go "Women!!!! What the @!@#$% is she thinking, Cant she understand that I Love her and I am trying to get over her now? Cant she understand that i need my space?" For a girl a relationship can be over in a sec... same goes for a guy as well... but then there is one thing that both have in common. What is the amount of substance that one has put in the relationship? What is the input that one has put in it? Well the answer is that everyone is the same. Regardless of the sex. We as humanbeings are emotional people and we love to have that special person that we can relate to. I am refering to those people who like to have a relationship alright? There is just something special that we find in that other person that we tend to fall for.. have a crush on... love so much that you find it hard to tell her.... Everyone is scared of rejection... Hell its the worst feeling that a person can go through.
 
                  So the next time that someone comes and tells you that they love you... Try to let them know exactly how you feel. If they need time to heal then give them that space. Cause it would be very good for you. You wouldnt end up loosing a wonderful friendship that you would be able to cherish more than you would ever imagine. Remember that the best gift that you could give someone is your smile, your love, your understanding, your friendship.
 
              I miss my friend ChocoChip.... Maybe sometime id run into and maybe id have the guts to apologise.... Incase i dont run into you... n you read this... I'm Sorry for getting mad at you. Hugs take care and please remember to never stop smiling cause that is one part of you that would bring a whole lot of sunshine to anyone's heart...